I can remember my very first job interview, I was in high school. As any typical 17 year old I was nervous but
unlike a typical teenager my legs were shaking and hands were tremoring. I walked in and took a deep breath and said matter-of-factly,
I have a movement condition and I do shake but my tremors will not effect any
work you have doing. That job I had for
the next 5 years. I've had many jobs,
internships, and positions in my life since and interviewing has become second
nature to me.
However, a common question I receive is: how do I approach my tremors when
interviewing? The first question to
tackle is whether you are confident your tremors will or will not interfere
with the work you will be doing. It is
very important to come to terms with the fact that you cannot deny the simple
fact that you have this condition or hide your tremors.
I have come to terms with the fact that because of my tremor I will not be
a brain surgeon, a pianist or a hair dresser due to my tremor. This does not mean that my aspirations or
goals have demised. Personally, I have
always had extremely lofty goals, but my goals have also been realistic as they
relate to my physical condition. When it
comes to interviewing, however, I have found the best course of action is to be
up front and straight-forward. With this
strategy, both your employer and you are covered in all areas and it eases any
anxiety you may have while interviewing.
It also gives you an opportunity to educate.
The ability to be open and speak about your condition honestly are both
vulnerable and honorable qualities.
Essential Tremors are a daily struggle, effecting an estimated 10
million people in the United States alone.
As I get older I notice that less and less people ask questions while
more and more people begin to stare. It
is frustrating, but I feel it’s not ignorance its simply curiosity.
The more you speak up (whatever form that may be); the more your educating
and raising awareness. Now that may be
out your comfort zone and that is okay, but remember nothing new, exciting or
different ever came from comfortable.
Your tremors make you unique, celebrate your uniqueness!
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